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  • Is BIG wedding translate to a successful FAMILY?

    Posted by JUSTUS NJUKI on June 12, 2021 at 4:48 PM

    Wedding is a one day event while marriage is lifetime. This is what marriage counselor advised a young couple about to say ‘I do’,and that they ought to have focused More on minimal wedding budgetWhat’s your take friends.

    Julius George Kamara replied 3 years, 1 month ago 7 Members · 10 Replies
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  • Akampurira Susan

    Member
    June 13, 2021 at 3:27 PM

    I’ve heard and also witnessed people who did grand weddings but couldn’t last for long together.I’ve also seen and heard about people who did small weddings and they’re still together up to now!
    Big weddings therefore don’t determine whether the marriage will be successful or not.

    • JUSTUS NJUKI

      Member
      June 13, 2021 at 11:22 PM

      That’s true sister

  • Saviour Uchi

    Administrator
    June 13, 2021 at 4:33 PM

    Big weddings are no guarantee for successful marriages. They are lots of them, travelling abroad just for receptions, hosting receptions in aircraft, etc and today are no more together. On the other hand, they are also some that are doing very well. My point is, its not really about the wedding, but the love, commitment, communication, understanding and prayers to hold the marriage firm

  • Josphine Mutia

    Member
    June 13, 2021 at 7:36 PM

    Not necessarily,a wedding is a day and a marriage is a lifetime. It’s like comparing a river with the ocean

    • JUSTUS NJUKI

      Member
      June 13, 2021 at 11:25 PM

      That’s true Josephine.. and very happy to hear from you.We are actually planning for a care drive and we need you on board.

  • Nnanke Ofem

    Member
    June 13, 2021 at 11:02 PM

    Completely no! After the wedding, the real marriage starts. Spending hugely doesn’t mean it’ll last. But in all, let’s always commit our marriages into He who made that day beautiful in His time, asking that He perfects all that concerns the marriage.

  • JUSTUS NJUKI

    Member
    June 13, 2021 at 11:20 PM

    True@saviour.Can two walk together unless there is an agreement?There must be love and commitment.

  • Kaibeh M. Koryon

    Member
    June 20, 2021 at 9:18 AM

    Big wedding can not determine a lasting marriage. Big wedding is just to tell people that you have the means to have a party but maintaining the marriage is a bigger task for the couples.Weddings don’t determine how the marriage will ends.

  • Julius George Kamara

    Member
    September 2, 2022 at 1:48 AM

    Some big weddings don’t last; whiles some small weddings do last.

    However; staying in marriage as legal couples for very long time depends on the couples managerial skills; and NOT how somebody’s marriage was directly financed or funded.

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