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  • Help a Sister, I need answers

    Posted by Saviour Uchi on June 24, 2021 at 11:11 AM

    Someone asked this question and I’m still gathering facts to give her a perfect answer. Here is the question: “I’m not happy even with a good life. Why?” What are some of the possible answers you think she needs to hear to make her comfortable & satisfy?

    Saviour Uchi replied 4 years, 3 months ago 3 Members · 4 Replies
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  • JUSTUS NJUKI

    Member
    June 24, 2021 at 1:31 PM

    There are certain stages in human being that requires a silence notes.Just like Music.Yes you’ve the answer but it’s not audible. Such stages include..when the other party’s anger is at a sizzling stage.Switch your answer to a standby mode,keep quite momentarily, suspended your response to a later time(s),day(s) or week(s).That way “you are giving that other person time to reconnect.-Let God work on it first-

    • Saviour Uchi

      Administrator
      June 25, 2021 at 2:18 AM

      You feel she needs time to reconnect with God? She needs some counseling and someone to talk to. Ignoring her may get her feel worst. My thought on your reply

  • Nnanke Ofem

    Member
    June 24, 2021 at 4:55 PM

    Firstly, let her realize that the life she’s living, isn’t hers but God’s.

    Secondly, let her love herself for who she is, and make sure to do only those things she enjoys doing….. Advice her to free herself also from every past event that doesn’t add to her value at the moment……. She shouldn’t be in isolation for a long time,..let her mingle with others and try as well to solve people’s problems(put smile on others) as this also gives inner peace and satisfaction!

    Above all, let her have a moment with God in her private time once in a while, and the Lord will show her great and mighty things that she knows not.

    Sending Love to her from my end???

    • Saviour Uchi

      Administrator
      June 25, 2021 at 2:21 AM

      Thank you for your contribution. I kept asking myself what happiness she is looking for because she has everything a lady of her age needs to be happy.

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